Yes, in the USA it is literally the wild wild west. Cities and States have each set rules for power and speed; some have set no rules at all.
For the cities that have restrictive rules, most are not stringently enforced (unless you are ACTING like a problem).
The strict rulings in Florida was a special case, with many "older" people living in that town who were annoyed by kids on eBikes.
It was amplified by the fatality being a well known and well liked tutor in the community. If you watched the video of the city council meeting, you saw many of the "decision makers" with tears in their eyes as she was discussed; they knew her. It was personal to them.
I ride a dual 1Kw motor bike, and never get anything but a nod from the Police. But my bike is set up as a commuter/mountain bike, with saddlebags, tail light, turn signals, brake light and head light. I am also an older mature rider. It also has a large enough front chainring, that I can pedal at even the top speed of this bike (appearances matter). So many fast bikes have a laughably small front chainring, and you can only ghost-pedal above 25 MPH.
It is also operated on a military base and must pass a security point at the entrance. I pedal, typically in a mid-range peddle assist mode. I don't ride it like a motorcycle (throttle-only, flat out). I never have any problems.
I am thinking of upgrading to one of the 60v 2600W bikes soon. As long as it is ridden reasonably, I am not expecting any problems in Southern Arizona. The bike may need a larger front chainring to avoid the appearance of ghost peddling.
Then why have all that extra power? It is used at contested/congested intersection to keep the time in the "high risk intersection" at a minimum. It allows me to start off and stay with traffic under 30 MPH until safely clear of the intersection. And also, yes, it laughs at hills. Most of the time the bike is operated in single motor mode, as dual motor mode is just overkill and shortens my overall range.
It is certainly different in the USA. For the most part, if you are not exceeding the speed limit, and are peddling, the police are generally not terribly interested in writing a citation. This is especially true if your eBike does not look too much like a motorcycle.