@Dsherm112 check out Selle SMP saddles. I have them on my bikes. Super comfortable and keeps pressure off the perineal nerves and area. They come in many different sizes and shapes. Also check out Ergon saddles.
I'm actually using the Selle SMP Gel Saddle too! It happened to come with my bike and was put on by the previous owner. It costs a little more than I expected, but after using it for some time now I don't think I could go back to a normal seat again.