The video shows the flex that I am experiencing, The headset appears to be properly mounted into the head stock.
The headset would appear to be completely fine if the problem was speed wobble, which does not originate as a problem with the headset. It comes from frame flex causing feedback to the front wheel assembly..
Somebody wrote on here that I am experiencing something called "death, wobble" or "speed wobble". It does happen at low speeds and only if I am moving the handlebars slightly left or slightly right then the oscillation starts.
OK thats a slightly different scenario then, if you induce it by turning the bars. Speed wobble starts all by itself.
I downloaded that video and put it on a loop so I could look closely at it. If you are
rocking the whole bike side to side without turning the handlebars, then what I am seeing is the actual fork blades wobbling in place as if they are freaking loose somehow. Concentrate your gaze on the fork bridge versus the relative position of the fender to the right and left fork blades. It looks like the bridge is rocking right and left,
but the fender isn't. The only way I can think of that NOT being an optical illusion is if you are rocking the bike side to side, not turning the steering, and there is wobble in the fork blades that comes from that motion.
A speed wobble would be the fork maintaining its relative position to the wheel, and the whole wheel, fork and handlebars wobbling together as one rigid piece (as they should) thanks to a speed-induced wiggle that originates from your bike's rear wiggling (that rear wiggle is pretty much un-felt). Think of it as the bike is wagging its tail, but the result you see and feel is the handlebars wobble. Its demonstrated perfectly in the Cane Creek video.
This is a one-in-a-zillion flaw if it is the former issue, and it resides in the fork being a piece of junk. Horribly dangerous if what I am seeing is not an optical illusion. It would mean the fork blades are rocking independently inside their stanchion mounts instead of being fixed firmly in position.