If you hand me a tax form, I break out in a cold sweat. We all have things we can't do. If someone gets nervous taking apart a motor, or even so much as a light switch, it is not going to go well. I have a friend who tried to fix her own plumbing and dropped a wrench on her face and chipped a tooth. If you so much as hand her a pair of pliers now, she will put her fingers in her ears and leave the room singing, la, la, la, loudly to herself. It is better not to ask people to go where they cannot go. It is fun for you, because it is your skill, but if it is not someone else's skill, it will not be fun for them.