"several other post from other places saying well try using zip ties" - now you say it is your wife. So, you were lying first, or you are lying now.
You are apparently an adult, you see the wire wrapping around the spinning axle, which is not supposed to spin, you were told to ziptie the wires, and THOUGHT THAT WAS A REASONABLE SOLUTION?????
Just exactly WHAT would you all like me to do with that, offer him a lollipop?
That axle has already spun, INSIDE the dropout. The dropout has been permanently widened and weakened. Torque arms would be the ONLY thing holding it in place, now, and they are not designed for that. Also, they are NOT simple to install correctly, absolutely MANDATORY for safe operation on this vehicle, and are any of you going to tell this individual that he is ABSOLUTELY NOT QUALIFIED to perform this task, and need professional assistance to avoid serious injury certain to result if that wheel comes off at speed? Or you all just going to be nice and let the ahole do it?
Don't bother folks, I already know the answer to that one, been down this road WAY too many times.
I use the methods I use because they WORK. Been using them all my life. Online is cluttered with an amazing number of flat-out liars, lazy people, total idiots and clueless morons, and I like to solve puzzles. Diagnostics and troubleshooting interest me. The people who fail to provide the most basic information, go out of their way to make communication difficult, won't answer basic questions, to solve their own friggin problem? I really do not care if they think I am a nice person, good guy, or ahole. They just have a puzzle I want to see the solution to. Don't care if its me, or someone else who finds it, See problem, Seek solution. I remember almost every single one I have ever seen. Many times, due to the above mentioned failures, it is difficult or impossible to isolate the cause of the problem, or even the exact problem itself, getting info is like pulling teeth, often false info is deliberately given. In such cases, the problem/solution data has little to no value whatsoever, the experience is frustrating, it is a waste of time. The only possibility of getting anything of value from the interaction is for it to serve as an example to future readers of what NOT to do when presenting themselves for free troubleshooting.
You have not yet seen what I consider "harsh"
Human, do you know me from somewhere else?